Arriving in a new place is always a whirlwind. 7 weeks ago we arrived in Seoul and for the first week it felt like we had done so much that I had already been here for a month. When arriving in a new place there is always a sense of urgency, whether you have 3 days or 2 months to explore it. You feel like there is just too much to see and do, and if you don’t do all of it there will be regrets, and there must be more time. But what I’ve found, especially when you have the opportunity to stay in one place for a decent amount of time, is that it is equally important to recognize that the place you are staying holds more value than the number of tourist attractions you can hit in any given day. The place you are staying is home to people that live normal lives and carry out normal activities, and that probably doesn’t involve bungee jumping on Wednesday mornings. I have finally started to find my sense of normalcy here in Seoul, and it is helping me to find an even deeper appreciation for this city. I don’t feel like I’m wasting a day if I don’t make it to a palace or a temple, and sometimes you need to spend the day in your pajamas and just relax because that’s what normal people do, and there sometimes all you want is to feel normal.
My work life now feels like a routine, and that is actually one of the greatest feelings in the world. I don’t have to think about what days I’m working or what days I’m off, I recognize what day of the week it is and how early I have to set my alarm. Putting on work attire doesn’t seem like a chore, I wake up and want to make an effort to look like an adult that is doing something professional. When I get into the office, I naturally fall into a pattern of work that includes our translations, checking my emails, etc. and I find this all so comforting. One of the biggest things I will pull away from this position is the experience of working in an office, and knowing that it is something that I do enjoy. I know it is not for everyone, but for me personally I love the sense of routine, and having the regularity.
Having a sense of normalcy also means I’m more in touch with what things are considered to be average activities here. Going and sitting in a cafe to drink iced coffee is a normal part of everyone’s life and I feel like I fit in when I go and do it too. Many of the cafes here are open 24 hours, so once I officially decide that my attempt to get real work done is no longer necessary, I can sit an watch Netflix until my heart is happy. The other night Allison and I found ourselves at Tom N Toms cafe watching Netflix until about 3:30am. After a very regrettable stop at Burger King we finally made it home around 5. The funny thing was, we weren’t the only ones out and wandering on the street. Considering the fact that it was 3 in the morning on a Monday night, you would be surprised at how many people were still roaming the streets. If it weren’t for the leggings and tshirt I decided to throw on, I may have felt like I blended in.
A few weekends ago we took on another very popular Korean activity. We bought tickets ahead of time, and got to the arena early to find our seats. All of this my lead you to believe that we were going to another sporting event, and in some ways I think people might say that we were. However, what we did do was go and see a live match of League of Legends. Now, if you’re not familiar, LoL (haha) as it is called, is an online game played by millions of people across the world. Teams of 5 players battle within a game map to try and destroy the other team’s “nexus.”Now, while the list of rules and regulations are incredibly complicated, extensive, and important, they are not what you need to know about League of Legends. What you do need to know is that this was not 10 kids sitting in a basement on their computers, these are professional players that people pay money to go see, that I payed money to go see. They sit in a sate of the art gaming area with live commentators, team coaches, and I kid you not they had matching shirts with their gamer names embroidered on the front. LoL is somewhat of a religion here in South Korea, and I was happy to be there and experience it, even if I didn’t have the slightest clue what was going on. Luckily, one of the guys that we went to watch with did know what was going on, and he was happy to share his knowledge. We started picking up on different aspects of the game, and soon we understood enough that we could tell why the crowd would start cheering, and I’ll be darned if we weren’t cheering along with them. I was happy to feel like I had made another connection to popular culture here, and I could definitely understand why this game has drawn an enormous fan base. If it is still hard to comprehend just how seriously this game is taken, I have attached a link to the video of the live stream (yes, a live stream) of the match we went to. While it’s 6 hours long (yes, 6 hours) only the second 3 hours (yes, still 3 hours) is the game we attended. Obviously don’t watch the entire thing, but if you skip to about 3 hours and 15 minutes you can get a good sense of the atmosphere. AND, if you skip to 4 hours and 27 minutes, there is a close up of our jolly bunch of 5 Americans sitting in the first and second row, including yours truly stuffing an off-brand Dorito into my mouth. This is exactly what I imagined for my 15 seconds of fame.
Our time here is quickly coming to a close, and that is really hard to think about. While having this sense of normalcy is really important, it will eventually make it more difficult to leave, and to go back to what my “normal” life really is back in the US. But for now I will continue to enjoy what time I have left, because I really am loving every second of it.